Cougar is an abusive term used to refer older women dating younger boys
for pleasure and entertainment, often referred as toy boys.
They usually date them for sexual pleasure and to boost their self-esteem.
Generally, these ladies are married and many have kids half their age.
This phase normally comes after menopause where she goes through
emotionally low phase and her desperation to up-rise her physical need are at peak.
Researchers have coined few ways
to identify whether the woman is a cougar or not.
They are as follows:
- Judging her age and dressing sense:
This is the master key to knowing
whether a woman is a cougar or not.
Normally they are 35 to 40 years of age
and you can easily identify them by wrinkles on their face,
mouth or area under the eyes or
by fine lines on their hands, elbows, and knees.
They are very skinny and often
go for plastic surgeries or Botox to veil their age.
They wear very tight clothes that are
comparatively for much younger girls and
use heavy makeup to cover those fine lines.
- Understand her behavior and company: Cougars are usually rich ladies,
often divorced and are ready to spend a huge amount of money on drinks.
They usually hang with other cougars and are often found on couches or
by table-side but rarely dancing. They are very straightforward,
can exchange phone numbers or share drinks even without being asked.
- Mood swings: When younger man meet cougar and compliments her,
they are very happy and feel successful in attracting them.
She feels young and rejuvenated. Some cougars who have experienced failure
in marriage or has reached menopause,
maybe nagging about their ex-husband or
family or may pass sarcastic comments about men
in general and may not be sweet always.
- Many single cougars dating younger men
for one night or according to her whims and wishes
to remain free from long-term commitments.
Whatever is the nature of the cougars seeking younger men,
if you don’t want to be her toyboy, it is better to just avoid.